
I know what boys like
I know what guys want
I know what boys like
I know what’s on their minds
Everybody knows boys like girls, cars, sports, beer and action movies. Right? They don’t cry, don’t say “I love you.”, and hate “chick flicks” with a passion that dooms the genre to box office failure.
And girls, of course, only like strong men, handbags, white wine and happy endings; they talk too much, and would never be caught dead watching an action movie like Casino Royale. Fairy tales and manga only, please!
Right? Right?
Um…no, actually, and yet somehow these stereotypes are so deeply ingrained in our culture that even otherwise intelligent people can frustratingly debate them in a “can’t see the forest for the trees” kind of way.
I’m a big fan of Grey’s Anatomy, and while it can arguably be categorized as being the epitome of “chick TV”, I highly doubt it would be the ratings smash it is if it didn’t have a similar, if not necessarily equal, appeal to men. ABC didn’t give it the premium post-Super Bowl spotlight last year — when it finally caught my attention and immediately seized it — to attract more women, and they were rewarded for their gamble with a ratings boost that saw the show not only outdraw its [at the time] monster hit lead-in, Desperate Housewives, but saw its ratings increase even more after being moved to the highly competitive Thursday nights for its third season.
Grey’s success is attributable to an enviable mix of being a well-produced, critically acclaimed dramedy that boasts a talented and diverse cast; a balanced approach by its writers that delivers character-centric drama that let’s that cast shine, with the inevitable sweeps month “event” story arcs that remember to move those characters forward in believable ways; plus, savvy marketing efforts on the part of ABC that include immediate repeat viewings on Friday nights as well as a strong internet presence.
Are there guys who won’t watch it because it’s perceived as a “chick show”? Sure. (But they’re missing out, not just on the show itself, but on a life lived on one’s own terms.) And there’s plenty of women who won’t waste an hour of their time watching it, either.
C’est la vie! As they say, “It takes, Diff’rent Strokes to move the world.”
What does this have to do with comics, though? Everything, actually.
Comic books and serial television dramas have a lot in common, and comics would do well to take some cues from its more popular sibling, particularly from successful ensemble shows like Grey’s Anatomy, ER, CSI, House, et al. The best of these shows feature the same elements that have made Grey’s Anatomy so successful, and are easily duplicable in comics form: diverse, ensemble casts in stories that feature steady character development, while balancing entertaining done-in-one plots with ongoing sub-plots. Hell, the primary doctors on the show are practically superheroes in their own right — the Justice League of Seattle Grace, if you will — with Grey and her fellow interns/residents as their sidekicks, and sometimes nemeses.
The key to the cast’s broad appeal is that each character has a distinct, relatable identity and it’s not unusual for any one of them to act unpredictably. Not “out of character”, mind you, but unpredictably. There’s a stark difference between the two that too many comics writers don’t seem to get.
One of the most common complaints about comics these days — and one I’ve made myself, many times — is the lack of characters who are relatable to a broader audience; whose appeal goes beyond the generally accepted core of 30-and-up white fanboys who grew up on comics, several of whom are now writing them from a severely limited worldview. Never mind the artists whose limited skills, lack of imagination, courage, or a combination of the three, insist on every superheroine or love interest resembling a surgically enhanced Playboy model.
Corporate comics could benefit from television’s use of a staff of writers instead of the merry-go-round of hot creators du jour that lead to inconsistent storytelling, characterization and sales. This approach would likely necessitate editors be more directly involved in the writing process, with their star shining a bit more brightly than the individual writers, but it would result in better stories with longer shelf lives and less audience churn. (Same thing could apply to artists, rotating two or three similar but distinctive talents between story arcs to maintain the shipping schedule.)
Does any of this mean, though, that comics are inherently a medium for boys — presumably white boys — and that the female minority who read and enjoy them are an aberration to be ignored? That depends on a particular publisher’s business model, really.
Johanna Draper Carlson makes an interesting comment in the post that spurred my thoughts here:
I’m sure there are occasional males who read romance novels, too, but if one started blogging about how the genre needed to be overhauled to be made more attractive to men, they’d be giggled at… and rightly so. Everyone wants to think that they’re a reasonable model to use to represent the general public, that everyone else is just like them down deep, but in some cases, it’s just not so. As an old friend once told me, “weirdness is a compliment”. Be glad you’re unusual, and realize the “mainstream” will rarely suit you.
My first thought here went back to my initial reluctance to embrace a show with a character nicknamed “McDreamy”, and imagined the likely ridicule that I would have been met with had I posted something to that effect on my [imaginary] IAmAGuyWhoLikesGreysAnatomy.com blog. My second thought was, “Wow! Did Johanna just dis the When Fangirls Attack crowd?” The subsequent reaction to her post certainly suggests others took it that way.
Granted, my referencing Grey’s Anatomy here is partly anecdotal, but while I’m definitely not the “norm” when it comes to the so-called average “guy”*, neither am I so “unusual” that my take on things is skewed towards irrelevance. Following that line of thinking, I can see where some took offense at Johanna’s seemingly telling them to “shut up”.
If the stereotypical average “guy” were the determining factor in failure or success on the mainstream level, Spike TV wouldn’t be a little-watched niche basic cable station; sports ratings wouldn’t be on a steady decline; and pisswater like Budweiser would be the best-selling beer in the country.
Okay, so that last one is true, and my despising Bud does technically make me “unusual”, but I referenced it purposefully to illustrate the concept of broadcasting and narrowcasting that often gets completely lost in these discussions about comics, which more often than not are really about Marvel and DC’s superhero comics.
ABC is a broadcast network, targeting the wide (and somewhat mythological) 18-34 year-old demographic with a variety of shows, and Grey’s Anatomy is a show with broad appeal that fits their business model. Marvel and (to a slightly lesser degree) DC, on the other hand, are narrowcasting publishers, targeting a very niche (and, again, somewhat mythological) 18-34 year-old, male demographic with a variety of characters in an increasingly narrow, interlaced setting.
Neither business model is better than the other, and there are many examples of companies who have gone too far in attempting to broaden their appeal only to lose their core audience (or, like Timberland and Cristal, unnecessarily alienating a key segment of their audience), but one could argue that Marvel and (again, to a slightly lesser degree) DC, have gone too far in the other direction, narrowing their focus so tightly that they “run the risk of creating a micro-niche that is too small to yield enough customers to sustain a business.” Comics can certainly be considered a “micro-niche” that is arguably too small to sustain more than a handful of legitimate major comics publishers, but since Marvel and DC own that “micro-niche”, narrowcasting is less a problem for them than for their competitors.
But what of the audience, the readers who want more diversity in their comics and are outspoken about that desire? Should they be dismissed with a “giggle”? Told to shut up? Encouraged to make their own fucking comics?
I’ll opt for the latter on this one, pointing out the fact that Grey’s Anatomy creator Shonda Rhimes is a 37-year old black woman who busted her ass in Hollywood before finding success and was just named to Time’s 100 Most Influential List, while tsk-tsking Johanna’s somewhat condescending defeatist tone that more and more lately is sounding like the grouchy old lady telling the kids to turn that music down and get off her lawn. :-(
* “No. The world is full of guys. Be a man. Don’t be a guy.” (Say Anything, 1989)